Each area of your home has a symbolic meaning with which you resonate on a subconscious level. Clutter and untidiness within each of these areas causes constriction and inertia in the corresponding aspects of your life.
CLUTTER IN THE KITCHEN
The kitchen has been called the "heart of the home," and
with good reason. Here we are nourished and provided for, even if
we are dining on a frozen entrée zapped in the microwave
rather than a homemade meal lovingly presented by Mom. An untidy
and disorganized kitchen makes it hard to nourish yourself and others,
on both physical and metaphysical levels. How you care for your
kitchen is a clue about whether you are giving proper attention
to your own nourishment and sources of abundance. Cleaning up and
de-cluttering your kitchen opens up space for you to receive the
support and comfort that you need in life.
LIVING AND DINING ROOM CLUTTER
These are spaces where you mingle with and honor your relationships
with family and friends. Here you engage with the world while being
at home through watching television, reading the paper, or arguing
politics with old friends over dinner. Clutter can turn these social
spaces into dens of isolation, especially if the mess is so bad
that it has been years since you've invited people over. Look around
your living and dining rooms to see what they say about your relationship
with the rest of the world. Are you hiding your true self from others,
burying it in clutter, or putting it on display here?
CLUTTERED HALLWAYS
Hallways are the arteries and highways of your home. Think of clutter
in your hallways as a traffic jam that prevents important connections
between different areas of your home and your life. Look at your
hallways to see how you feel about your life's path: are they well
lit and easily navigable, or do they trip you up? If you feel a
disconnect between work and family, self and others, what you need
and your obligations, it may be time to give your hallways a good
clearing out.
BATHROOM CLUTTER
Bathing and anointing the body is a preparatory ritual for many
religious rites both ancient and contemporary. On a daily basis
we use this space to prepare ourselves to meet the world. Clutter
in the bathroom can indicate a devaluation of self-worth, a lack
of attention to self that goes beyond the physical. A clean, well-decorated
bathroom can become a tranquil sanctuary for rejuvenation and self-care.
Scented soaps, attractive accessories, and fragrant candles have
a place here. Beautifying your bathroom by eliminating clutter and
disorder and transforming it into a place of refuge will bring a
sense of the sacred into your morning and evening personal-care
rituals.
CLUTTER IN THE BEDROOM
Adults' bedrooms are for sleeping and intimacy, and they should
function as places of renewal for self and relationships. Clutter
in the bedroom is enervating without being restful. If you feel
"wired and tired," creating order out of chaos in this
most personal space can help you relax and let go of the stress
of the day. Then you can get a good night's sleep or enjoy some
special time with your partner.
CLUTTERED CLOSETS
Closets represent things that are hidden, unknown, or unrecognized.
When we fill our closets with clutter, we stifle our ability to
be intuitive and insightful. Cluttered closets can indicate problems
that you may not be consciously aware of but which impede your progress
through life, work, and relationships nonetheless. Keeping the closet
door closed is not an effective solution.
ATTIC AND BASEMENT CLUTTER
A cluttered attic creates a feeling of being under pressure. It's
hard to feel optimistic about the future when there's so much stuff
"hanging over your head." Ancestor issues reside up there,
along with all those boxes and chests holding the detritus of generations.
And the basement and other below-ground storage areas are considered
abodes of the subconscious, so watch your step and get that clutter
cleaned up!
CLUTTER IN YOUR GARAGE
Think of your car as a symbol of your mobility, independence, and
ability to be self-directed in life. If there's so much stuff piled
up in your garage that you can barely fit the car in there, you
may be hampered or overly cautious moving forward in life as well.
Stop thinking of clutter-clearing as a tremendous chore, and start thinking of it as one of the most effective self-improvement tactics available to you. Every magazine and piece of paper you recycle, every book you give to the library, every knick-knack and item of clothing you release to a new owner creates space in your life for new insight, energy, joy, and experiences to come in!
© 2003 Stephanie Roberts
[excerpted from "Clutter-Free Forever!", Lotus Pond Press, 2003]
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