welcome to the forum

jv08 · #**171** (**permalink**) 11-26-2008, 08:13 PM

This is such a wonderful idea. Thanks

Maria450 · #**172** (**permalink**) 12-19-2008, 11:16 PM

I see new thatthis will be one of my favorite sites -Filled with suchgood andcaring people .
Cheryl, You have many here supporting you. I hope you stay strong and get through this. Try to find time to heal.

Life gets a lot easier once you get through the valley experiences.

steve20092009 · #**173** (**permalink**) 01-01-2009, 02:15 AM

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Originally Posted by letysha15

Hi

How did you get the strength to leave? I am in a relationship now that is very abusive. But my problem is i love him so much i cant leave. He wont let me....

Please some good sound advice would be appreciated....i am trying ....Please pm me

thanks

Lisa

This is what saddens me, not having the strength to leave because of love.
Love has to be sacrefist if your getting abused, i just don't get woman sometimes, they rather stay and get abused and lead a horrible life.

Sorry if this post sounds mean, i get so mad and upset when i hear of woman getting abused.

LISA GET OUT B4 ITS TOO LATE!

bluemariposa · #**174** (**permalink**) 01-08-2009, 12:56 PM

Hi! I was interested in the abuse forum. Is there a separate forum, or is this thread it?
I'm more of an abuse survivor. I left my husband in 2006. It's been a long, hard road and nothing is perfect, but things are settling the best they can under the circumstances. I wouldn't mind sharing support and advice to those who need or want it.

yollyp · #**175** (**permalink**) 01-11-2009, 08:05 PM

The abuse will not cease if one tends not to put a stop to it. It is not an easy task though. It takes courage to answer the call of "quitting" the relationship. But if you will not stop it now, when is the right time? When everything can never be healed? Please, if you love your husband to the extent of keeping mum with the abuse, please forgive yourself - spare the children please.

Kbear08 · #**176** (**permalink**) 02-23-2009, 04:02 PM

I'm very new to this site but am a survivor and in a 15yr current abusive relationship but don't want to get into the group just yet until I figure out the one group I'd really like to be apart of since we only are allowed one. So far this site seems awesome and thanks so much for having a group with a subject that imho is not talked about enough... [img]smileys/smiley31.gif[/img]