*Hugs* I do not wish any harm to those that have harmed me. That's not the way it's supposed to be. I do pity those types of people though. I feel that they will never truly know love, forgiveness or how to care. Each night I pray for those who are abused and those who are abusing...Especially when children are involved. It's hard growing up in an abusive household and it's even harder to be married to an abuser. If there's ever anything I can do to help, please let me know. Be strong, be safe and know you are loved!