Hey Craig,
I think we all have read your post and understand where you are coming from just not sure how to respond. I think most of us have felt the way you are describing from time to time. I do not have any Incredible words of wisdom to give you except it took me a long time to figure out that I am not in business to make friends(although it is nice to) I am here to work at my business just a little bit each day.
When I was first starting out I listened to my upline at the time telling me to advertise in all these expensive places and although made money I also put out alot. You can build your business on cheap or free methods this way you do not grow to resent your business,company or industry. Again this was all learned after the fact.
I also think we all need to prioritize. Family first and the business second. If you set a schedule for yourself with your business no matter what business NWM, Affiliate Marketing,ect. Set aside time for your wife, your church and then your business. Really if you just spent 2 hours per day on your business that would be enough.
I love wahm boards but Occassionally I find myself being too sucked in. For example you come on here to read 1 post and before you know it you have been sitting here for 2 hours reading or posting stuff. Does this really help your business grow?
If you focus solely on the actions that will make your business grow and minimize the time stealers in your business which is what I am trying to do lately I think so many of us would find ourselves prospecting more and our businesses growing.
Again, all I have to offer you is just what I have personally experienced and let you know you are not alone and above everything else it doesn't matter what career/job/business you have..We all must schedule things otherwise someone or something in your life will get neglected. JMHO
I truly wish you and your wife many blessings and I hope you find what you are searching for.
Jenn